This day of the year…
- You have a free evening…
- You don’t have to go through the pain of selecting just the right gift which does not look like a cute white teddy bear with a heart on it or a box of chocolates which is in a heart shaped box or something which is not colored red
- You will not shell out twice even thrice the money for Roses that suddenly become very important…
- You will not be sitting in a restaurant and feel like being in the sea of couples some of them are happy, some of which just there, some which are only looking at others’ properties
- You don’t have to do something if you don’t want it, and because the world does it
- You will not be thinking, wish I was single again 🙂
- You got another day together…
- You can finally spend sometime thinking about how to express (unless you are too lazy and end up buying a few roses, a teddy, a box of chocolates and the loads of other things which are more common than air)
- You don’t have to through the thoughts about why you are still single
- You are not looking at every girl/boy/woman/man who is walking alone hoping that he/she looks at you and there is a chemistry that builds up right there and then
Why is it that we need a specific day to celebrate affection ( i am choosing not to call it love, because I personally feel that its a word, not just any word, but still a word which is the results of hundreds of other emotions)… so coming back to my thought… why do we need one day?
Men always hope they will get laid… does not matter if its valentine’s day or not… only on valentine’s day they feel that every other women they are going to see is hunting for a guy !!!
Women always don’t want to get laid only because its a specific day… ok almost always !!!
This day the earth or the air or the mountains or the stars are at no specific position which would increase the feeling of being loved or love someone more ( ok ok… i used that word; did not know what would fit better there)
At the end of the day…
its the Rose dealers, chocolate companies, restaurants etc etc which take away the love that you have showering on your guy/girl only because its the 14th of Feb…
I someone is really special to me, I rather make them feel special every morning when they wake up…
and every evening when they call it a day…
Also I have a plan… when my Chai ki Dukan opens in its real form… on valentine’s day the entry of couples ( like only two people who are madly in love) would be banned…
Come with
Friends
Parents
Grandparents
Kids
and I will assure you one of the best days at the Chai Ki Dukaan…
Also keeping in mind the chichora guy I am… I would not be surprised if the song list of the day includes…
Ek Chumma tu mujhko udhaar dai-de… aur badle mein up bihaar lai le…
Meri Chamiya tu haan mein jawab dai-de… aur badle mein dilli punjab lai-le
and…
Kisi Disco mein Jayen… aur hotel mein khayein…
koi dekh le ne hamein yahan… chalo ghoom ke aayein humm
Chalo ishq ladayein chalo ishq ladayein… chalo ishq ladayein sanam…
and…
Bidi Jalaiye… jigar se piya… jigar ma badi aag hai…
and…
Sapne mein milti hai, o kudi meri sapne mein milti hai…
and…
loads of songs where you don’t have to worry how you are looking when you dance 🙂
ok.. so coming back to the point…
enjoy your day… make someone feel special today… and make sure you make them feel special tomorrow, and day after tomorrow, and day after day after tomorrow, and the next Sunday… and the next Monday and Thursday as well…
Do that !!! its IMPORTANT… more important that you know it is…