Someone makes you laugh your ass out !!!

does that mean that the person has a great sense of humor? probably yes…

but then the person who is laughing is more important then the person in question actually… if “you” do not appreciate that humor, if the words coming out this guys mouth do not trickle “your” funny bone, this guy is nothing…

I can say this with confidence because I have been complimented and accused of having a certain sense of humor by my friends, or people I know or talk to… the same lines make a few friends laugh and they are kind enough to talk about how i bring smiles into their life, and at the same time, with the same damn lines, i can manage to piss off a certain set of people… not that I try to bring humor at the cost of someone !!! but this is a sincere observation…
i love to make people i care of smile, and at times i manage to do that just fine too… and i also have people who will not just understand what i am talking about… so its a funny mix…

so before i write further… let me thank everyone who manages to find me funny and live with my sense of humor 🙂

and that brings me to the philosophical angle of this post as well… more often then not we blame/credit someone else for the good or bad that happens to us… and example was the people who find me funny complimenting me for having a great sense of humor and another example is of people who blame others for things that are happening in their life professionally or personally.

I mean what is maturity all about? understand what you want and doing things that you feel is right… and when the result is something that you did not expect, you conveniently put the blame on someone else… and get out of the picture… i see this happening all the time in my office… and have seen loads of incidents similar in nature personally too…

Like i wrote in one of my previous posts as well, only I am absolute, and everything else is relative… I choose if what happens around hurts me, makes me feel good, bad, angry, frustrated, educated, left out, ignored, blamed, honored… most of it happens automatically, but only if i have chosen it that way sometime in the past…

I guess, i live the way i choose to…

do you?