Why are we guys like this !!!!

I have experienced this twice now… one of my good friends… well i call her a good friend coz she has been around to hear me out when i had anything to speak…. she was not feeling well for the last few days.. and i called her up yesterday… the talk went nicely.. and then she said… Prashant.. i need to talk to you… being the super intelligent i am .. i asked her if this was the last time we were talking… and then she said “KINDA”…. i mean.. what does kinda mean… its either the last time.. or its not.. anyway…

why this happened… here is why… she has a boyfriend… and he probably is not comfortable with the two of us being friends… insecurity… trust… faith… whatever…. though he is nice enough not to say that in clear words to this friend of mine… however… in subtle words the message was shared.. and she took the right decision… for her its HE who should be more important and talking to me … or being friends with me is something that is not that high on the list…

lost another friend… for no fault of mine… the last time it had happened was when i was in Hughes… a friend of mine called up one fine day… and toldme that Prashant Manish is not really comfortable with us talking… and she would never talk to me again.. and i let go !!!!

Guys… why are we like this… why can’t we accept that our girlfriends can also have friends… why do we bloddy act like this… and i am not excluding myself from the list.. i probably am like that only…

possesive

insecure

anyway…. i just hope things just work out fine for both of them… coz if they do not … this guy needs a serious kick in his butt !!! that girl is giving up her nature for him… she is changing herself for him.. he must be one helluva guy… am i jealous.. yeah… i think i am… am i angry… yes i am ….

would i let go…

YES I WILL