Some family came to see me….
after all my parents want me to get married… the father and the brother of my may be to be came to meet ma parents and me..

I am asked a simmple question..

beta would you like to get married?
no, i like myself to be treated as someone who is willing to get married.. and then when everything finalises i elope with the person i choose for myself… for some reason that does not workout.. and i have to come back home to be displayed in front of another family…

do you know how to cook…
yup…. though that is not really appreciated by the ppl who eat what i cook…

do you know how to sing…
yes… i was one of the finalists in the African Idol….

what are your hobbies…
listening to music…cooking… and other ghar ke kaam…

and they say to my folks… hamein ye ladka pasand hai….

isn’t this wat most of the girls who get treated as objects when someone or the other comes to see them, would like to happen to a guy… why not for a change the guy is displayed at his place.. and someone asks him if he knows how to cook.. and if he can wash clothes.. and if he knows how to use the sewing machine… i am sure lotsa gurls out there would like to see this happening… unfortunately this is something not really happening !!!!

coming back to what is going on at my place….

beta is ladki ne MCA kiya hai.. and she is working in some MNC…..
beta us ladki ke papa kisi school mein princi hai… ladki ke baare mein abhi kuch pata nai hai….

this is getting really scary now… do i have to decide if i want to spend the rest of my life on this planet in one day… that one day when i would meet the gurl my folks probably would think is the best for me… actually they will not take any call before i decide what i really want to go ahead for.. but still the first level of filtering is being done by them…

i am thinking about the kinda gurl i would like to spend my life with.. reealy thinking now.. and also thinking about what kinda gurl can manage to spend her life with me…. oh boy !!! some brain needs to go into this…

i am shit scared… what is going to happen in the next few months and how i am going to live through it… upar wala jaanta hai !!!!