CoNdiTiOnEd 2 LoVe !!!
I had an interesting discussion with a friend yesterday…
she would be getting married pretty soon.. and said that she was “conditioning herself to love the person she is going to get married to“.Somehow i felt that is not how things are going to work for me… i do not think i need to make myself love the person i am getting married to… it would happen.. with time ofcourse… there is not need to work hard towards it at all…
what i feel would be the key to any successful relationship would be respect for the other person as a person… if i can respect the other person… i think i will hear what (s)he has to say… also try and understand it… and from there move towards things like compromise, trust, not to forget love, affection and all those…instead of telling a person that i love her i rather tell her that i respect her for what she is.. and what she is not… and let things and feelings take their time to develop….
i have not been able to write all what i had in mind… i guess i am short of words here….
rightmore might write more !!!!
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